The perfect profile for iDating

I find it utterly amazing how many great men and women are on dating services - at least based on their descriptions of themselves.

They often start out by telling us how their friends would describe them. Terms like loyal, sweet, loving, kind, caring, nurturing. You get the idea. Just add every conceivable nice quality and you get the picture. Now here's the part that's difficult to comprehend. Most ...

First I want to apologize to all of my fans (yes, both of you) regarding my lack of posts to this blog. I am hoping to be back on track and entertain all those requiring guidance and humor in their lives on the dating circuit.

The best way to get to know someone is by the passage of time. Over the long haul each of us acts more like our ...

When you were young and dating, this topic never came up. Now that you may be entering into, or just past andropause, and find yourself dating again, there are some important issues to consider. First, if you have a bad case of andropause, you probably have no interest in dating, and that’s a shame.

Andropause just means your testosterone - the main male hormone, is fading as it does with ...

When you were young and dating, this topic never came up. Now that you may be entering, in living through, or just past menopause, and dating again, there are some important issues to consider.

First, some women get so uptight about the effects of menopause that it keeps them entirely out of the game.

For some, it was menopause that got them back ...

Quite often, when perusing the little photos of perspective mates on Internet dating sites, I think the dating service must have sent me suggestions from the wrong group of women. These women are very much older than me.

Annoyed, I would then look at the person's age, and I'm really shocked! These old looking women are often ten or more years younger than me. How is this possible?

Actually there is a simple answer - ...

I met a woman from France, of all places. I have never been to France, so as you can imagine, I met her locally. It was a treat, because she had a different set of values and philosophies that were refreshing aside from the fact that she was pretty and sexy.

When I told her I was writing about iDating, she told me that she "would never do that" to meet a ...

"What, pray-tell is GU?"

That’s the question I asked an iDater who contacted me. She was from New York; at least a hundred miles away from me.

When she indicated interest, I wrote back mentioning that I was looking for someone closer. I left out the part about how I am looking for someone who lives around five or six blocks away. That’s right, you ...

Once you get on Internet dating sites you have, in essence, joined a new community. And like the dynamics of real communities, there are some that come into play here, too, in your virtual community.

One of the more interesting things I noticed about community was the fact that I was getting to know some people rather well though I never met them and probably never well.

If you are not in a committed relationship, there is a good chance a storm may be brewing.

While most people attribute this storm to women, hence the names of hurricanes used to be exclusively female; today it can go either way. While commitment concerns remains mostly a woman thing, there are some men who keep pushing for the commitment just as much as the women.